The new edition of Toys R Us's "Differently Abled Catalog" Is out. Wow, shockingly a child with Down Syndrome is featured on the cover. I can't even blog, as a mother, an occupational therapist, and an equal rights advocate I am outraged. WHY do so many parents think this is good???
The following is a formal post I made, it sums it up. I am seriously considering the impact of involving the media. This is discrimination in it's highest form and the very people responsible think they are making great humanitarian efforts and perpetuating yet another label on our kids as well as promoting a segregationist mentality among the very people - our children's typical peers - we are struggling to achieve equality and acceptance with.
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I am sorry, but as a mother of a child with Down Syndrome and and Occupational Therapist, I find this catalog extremely offensive and inappropriate. I have looked through them since their inception looking for toys which have been adapted for children with special needs and are therefore worthy of a separate catalog. I have found none. The exact same toys that appear in the usual catalogs are there with beautiful children who have yet another label pinned on them and publicized - by a toy store - "differently abled." Are not all children in fact differently abled? Why not include the icons telling what skills each toy works on (the reason we give any toy to any child) in one big catalog and include models representative of all children? How can we stand for a toy store imposing another label on our children? How does that fit in with our mission here? What message does this catalog send to the families and parents of our children's peers who we are struggling to gain acceptance and equality with? Just because "differently abled" sounds nicer than the "R" word, the outcome is the same. Separate and not equal.
